Dark Culture

The cult started in New Jersey, not Mexico

Dark house in New Jersey suburbs with red glow - origin story

Everyone assumes this started in Mexico City. The timeline supports that assumption — CDMX is where the first events happened, where the brand was born, where the logo and the voice and the community took shape. But the instinct that built all of it predates Mexico by years.

The cult started in New Jersey. In 2018, somewhere between Queens and the suburbs, the idea of starting a cult became a running joke. Except it was only half a joke.

The pre-SLIST incubation

October 2020. Organized a hiking party. The group started calling it Simon’s cult. Same month, organized a Halloween party across four venue options. The event-planning instinct, the music curation control, the ritual and tradition thinking — all present before anyone had heard of SLIST. Before Mexico City. Before the first rave. Before the first shitpost.

January 2020 — Thailand. Became comfortable dancing alone in nightclubs. That sounds trivial. It is not. The person who can dance alone in a room full of strangers has already solved the psychological precondition for building a community: they do not need the community to exist in order to show up. The community forms around the person who was going to be there regardless.

The tutoring precedent

Before Mexico, there was a tutoring business. Built from scratch in 2017. Same pattern that built SLIST: enter a domain, learn the system deeply, identify the inefficiencies, build systems to fix them. Scaled from minimum wage to $180 an hour to $15,000 project packages with escrow. Built a website from scratch. Built a parent community. Built a referral network. The first contrarian principle was codified during this era: ask what a typical prep center would do, and then do the opposite.

That principle is the DNA of SLIST. Ask what a typical promoter would do — safe lineups, safe branding, safe politics — and then do the opposite. The domain changed from education to nightlife. The operating system did not change at all.

Why the origin myth matters

The Mexico origin myth is cleaner. South Asian kid discovers raves in Brooklyn during lockdown, moves to CDMX, learns Spanish, builds an underground empire. That story has a beginning, middle, and implied future. It fits in a bio. It makes sense on a flyer.

The actual origin is messier. A kid from Queens who was already organizing cult-like gatherings, already building systems, already contrarian by default, who happened to land in Mexico City during a pandemic and found a scene that matched the energy he had been carrying since high school. The rave scene did not create the instinct. The instinct found the rave scene.

The web design venture in 2020 matters too. Before Mexico, there was a design business with dark themes, teal accents, no capital letters in typography, minimalist aesthetic. The no-caps principle that defines SLIST branding is traceable to a physical journal from April 2020. The aesthetic was locked in before the first beat dropped.


The cult started in New Jersey because the person who built it was already the person who builds cults before he had any material to build one from. Mexico gave him the material. New Jersey gave him the instinct. The distinction matters because it means this project is not a product of circumstance. It is a product of character. Character does not change when the zip code does.